Is she born??

This morning I woke up and read my daily blogs. Dave and Sandy (Wren's blog on my sidebar) really got me thinking. If Lily is eight / nine months old at time of referral then she may have already been born this past February / March. It is difficult to think that Lily may already be 3 months old and I try not to think about it to often. If Lily is born then I have to wonder where she is...Is she in foster care or an orphange? Is she healthy? Is she with Wren? Is she being held and loved every day? These are questions I ask myself and hopefully one day soon the blanks will be filled.